Items to convince parents on:
1) That I shall be living with hirsute males in Bombay..no they are not bad and shall not take advantage of me
2) that everything is not going to stapled into place by the time I go there...
3) that bulki is a goddess who has cast her benovelent eye on me, and nothing goes wrong on her watch
4)that I love them though by going to b'bay I am doing something unforgivable
5) I have more brains than it looks